Sex Talk: Teaching Someone How To “Do You Right”

Posted: February 6, 2014 in Sex
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Whenever you’re doing something new most of the time you have to be trained or shown how to do it first. Do you think the same rules apply with sex? I was having a conversation with a friend about a month ago, and we were catching up on the different encounters and date-life we’ve had with guys. It had been about a year and a half; so we had a lot to fill each other in on. Anyway, she was telling me how she had met a guy she really liked at first, but then they had sex and it was “garbage” (her words). She was really disgusted and, for her, it ruined their whole dating experience and she felt like she really wasn’t interested in him anymore because of that. So I suggested to her that since she liked everything else about the guy that maybe there was room for hope. Maybe she could teach him what he needs to know, but she was totally against it saying, “Uh huh I don’t want nobody that I have to teach! I don’t have the patience. He needs to already know what to do!” I’ve known her for a long time now (around 12 years or so). Sex has always been important to her. Whereas sex has always been the least important thing to me when it comes to a relationship. So perhaps that’s why we disagree on this.

Every woman is different. Heck, every person is different. Maybe what his last girlfriend or significant other liked is totally different from what you like. Maybe a person might be “trash” (also her words lol) in bed because no one has ever told them the truth; that they suck. What do you think? If you meet a person and they are awesome in every other way, would you mind taking the time to show them how to “do it right”? Men, how do you feel about women who are lame in bed? Do you invest the time and energy to bring them up to par?


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