What Does The Number of Sex Partners a Woman Has Had Say About Her?

Posted: January 17, 2013 in Sex
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I know this topic has been discussed on several platforms and discussed again. For whatever reason, it’s a topic that never dies down. So I’m jumping on the bandwagon and talking about it too 🙂 ! A while back a male friend and I were talking about this. He asked me why women lie about being celibate and why they lie about the number of sex partners they’ve had. My answer to him was that women lie about being celibate because they think it will make them more desirable or seem more lady-like. I said they lie about the number of people they’ve slept with because of the stigma attached to having too many sexual partners. That is my opinion.

I went on to explain that everywhere you look, men refer to women as hoes, sluts, whores, and being loose when they have several sexual partners. Once it comes to air that they’ve had “too many” sexual partners they become only good for sex and nothing more than that. Well no woman wants to knowingly be labeled as only being good for lying on her back. So she feels the need to lie. Basically, women think that men will think less of them for sleeping around and they do. That is also why a lot of women won’t admit to having a freakier side or high sexual appetites.

I am not going to ask the typical question of how come when women sleep around they’re a hoe, etc. but when men do it it’s acceptable. That one has been ran into the ground and I do somewhat agree with the double standard that lies there. My question is how come men view women who have a lot of sex partners in a derogatory way? How come they just don’t see them as women with healthy sexual appetites who enjoy sex, enjoy having different experiences with different men, and aren’t afraid to explore their sexual feelings? So long as she is being safe, why does that have to be a bad thing and why do men pretend like they don’t like women like this? They obviously do because I’m sure these women didn’t get to their high number of sex partners by having sex with themselves! If you don’t think a woman is a hoe for having a lot of sexual partners, what do you think of her? I’d also like to know, do men really get turned off by women with a high number of sex partners or is it all an act?

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