5 Automatic Turn Offs For a Woman

Posted: August 9, 2012 in Single Men
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Below I put together a quick list off the top of my head of things that are automatic turn offs for me and other women I’ve talked to when dealing with men. Guys have a look. If you do any of these things it could be why you don’t get any play from the ladies.

1.    Cat Calling:

Yelling out “Yerrrrp!” “Ayooo!”, or even “Psssst” will pretty much cause the same reaction in all women when they hear that from you guys. We will roll our eyes and continue walking. A teen girl might turn around and respond to that but a woman will not. We are not your dog or any other pet. Please do not call out to us like we are. You are blatantly putting your level of class on front street when you do that. You would have much better luck with a simple “Excuse me Miss” or “Hi how you doing?”

2.    Having A Run Down Appearance:

No, looks are not the most important thing but let’s be real. The initial attraction one has to another is usually the physical. You like what you see so you go after it. If you look like you just woke up and didn’t even bother to give you’re appearance any effort, we most likely won’t give you any effort either. No need to look like you just stepped out of GQ but at least look presentable if you expect a woman to give you the time of day. Keep your hair cut, twisted, braided, or whatever it is you’re doing to it. Clean your shoes! You don’t have to be balling and have a bunch of different pairs of shoes. Just clean the ones you have! I remember my brother breaking out the cleanser, water, and toothbrush on the regular to keep his sneakers fresh. You can buy shoe polish very cheap to keep your dress shoes clean too. There is no reason for your footgear to look run down. If you don’t care enough to take the time to do these small things for your appearance it lets us know that you probably won’t put a lot of effort in with us after you get us either.

3.    Bragging:

I can’t speak for all women on this one but for me bragging is very annoying. Women who are easily impressed by status and material things may not mind it as much. Women of substance will. I met up with this guy for the first time a few months ago (purely out of boredom lol). He just kept going on and on about how he had all these passports and how much he traveled, and how successful his business was, and how great he was at sex. YES! He actually went on for a good ten minutes about how he was so good at sex. Usually if you have to brag about things like this it says one of two things. Either you are really shallow and superficial and assume that we are too. That, or you are really insecure or lacking in some areas of your life so you need to boast to make yourself look good. You feel a need to impress. Most braggers are embellishers anyway and a smart woman will see right through this. So please just stop it.

4.    Bad Breath:

This is self-explanatory and should be a given. Still, there are a lot you guys out there running ramped with halitosis breath. I can’t tell you how many times I might’ve found a guy interesting and cute but every time he opened his mouth it killed it for me, especially the close talkers. I have met so many like this that for a minute I started doubting my own breathe wondering if it was me. Nope, it wasn’t me. I don’t know what they’re putting or not putting in toothpaste these days but it clearly is failing some of you. Besides brushing, gargling, and flossing, the only thing I can tell you is the same thing I told the single ladies. Keep some gum and/or candy on hand. I would suggest popping in a fresh piece right before you approach your target. It’s just cruel to subject us to those types of conditions.

5.    Stuntin’:

Fellas, it’s just not worth it. Riding around in a rental car pretending it’s yours is just lame. At some point we are going to realize you don’t own it. Wearing big fake chains and watches and spending $300 on some fly sneakers to look flashy is WAAAAACK! Once we find out you live in a dump and you can barely afford the stuff you’re wearing, you’ll just end up looking ignorant and silly to us. From the female’s perspective it has nothing to do with gold digging but everything to do with false first impressions. It’s just more annoying than anything.

  1. Just Jewel says:

    It’s just the plain truth though. I can’t say if it should or shouldn’t be that way but it just is. Sure one can say you should be attracted to a “worthwhile mate” but you can’t tell just by looking at someone if they’re worthwhile or not. However you can tell by looking at someone if you like what you see or not. It’s just like picking out fruit. When you pick out a peach you don’t know if it’s sweet or not. You pick it out based on how it looks. Is it ripe in color? Does it have dents or brown spots, etc.? You don’t know how sweet it is until you bite into it. Same thing with a mate, the initial attraction is physical. Then you have to “bite in” to see if it’s worthwhile from there. Thanks for the comment!

  2. darcwonn1906 says:

    “The initial attraction one has to another is usually the physical. You like what you see so you go after it. If you look like you just woke up and didn’t even bother to give you’re appearance any effort, we most likely won’t give you any effort either.”

    I had to tell someone this on my own blog. She made a reference to men only looking for women that are “attractive” and not “worthwhile mates”. I had to tell her that initial attraction is usually going to be based on physical. It is what it is.

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